Your Thoughts Are Needed: Magick to Protect Children

[Nahemah]

OP, if you're so well versed why are you here for spells? It shows a lack of understanding of magic, and a lack of effort as you can create or literally google infinite different rituals.

Why bother coming to a discussion forum, where active practitioners gather, who may be able to help you with some practical tips and hints, ideas or ritual formats, or where there may be other magickal inclined persons who have previous field experience with the same or a similar situation?

Also, why look to gain potentially valuable support and perhaps even magickal assistance, from those of a similar mindset to oneself?

That would be plain silly and totally illogical wouldn't it.

A request for help was made, in the help folder of the forum. It is not for you, Hadit, to judge whether the subject matter or OP is valid or worthwhile.

That is why the forum is staffed, after all. Please don't engage like this again.

You need to be persistent with your services. If you're working with protective services then it is quite possible nothing is occurring. Sure some outdated punishment, but if the kids are still there then they are not being physically or sexually abused, and likely not emotionally abused. These things get children immediately removed from the house.

Absolutely, rigidly and dogmatically correct, as anyone ever who has given evidence or testimony that says otherwise is a complete liar and every gaoled 'domestic' child abuser is innocent.
The law system and social services always prevent 'real abuse' and save kids from such horrors as psychologically controlling behaviours,or mental manipulation and a rule of fear of consequence, as well as physical or sexual abuse. After all, those in positions of power and trust wouldn't ever abuse or neglect their offices, now would they?

No answer required, as the query is rhetorical and court records, victim statements and many other forms of evidence say differently.

Parents would likely also be drug tested, but because services are confidential you would not know such things. You can't go on some premeditated murder spree magic or otherwise without anything beyond the word of obviously stressed children. It's also unbelievably irresponsible to create a post like this if you're getting involved with services. You don't want your referral including that you were looking to magically murder your children's step father, it's a mess you want to avoid. I would recommend deleting it. Consider trying individual child therapy or starting with family counseling, even if it is just you and the kids. I'd focus more on focused, calming, will strengthening magic rather than the exhausted and wasteful effort of destruction magic.

The OP did not seek, nor does he deserve a moralising lecture from you Hadit.

This is a hostile post that has no place in this topic.

Refrain from more of this ilk or sanctions will be applied. If you have no positive contribution to make to the thread, don't post in it. That is all.

[Nahemah]

To all concerned:

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[Hadit]

OP, if you're so well versed why are you here for spells? It shows a lack of understanding of magic, and a lack of effort as you can create or literally google infinite different rituals.

Why bother coming to a discussion forum, where active practitioners gather, who may be able to help you with some practical tips and hints, ideas or ritual formats, or where there may be other magickal inclined persons who have previous field experience with the same or a similar situation?

Also, why look to gain potentially valuable support and perhaps even magickal assistance, from those of a similar mindset to oneself?

That would be plain silly and totally illogical wouldn't it.

A request for help was made, in the help folder of the forum. It is not for you, Hadit, to judge whether the subject matter or OP is valid or worthwhile.

That is why the forum is staffed, after all. Please don't engage like this again.

You need to be persistent with your services. If you're working with protective services then it is quite possible nothing is occurring. Sure some outdated punishment, but if the kids are still there then they are not being physically or sexually abused, and likely not emotionally abused. These things get children immediately removed from the house.

Absolutely, rigidly and dogmatically correct, as anyone ever who has given evidence or testimony that says otherwise is a complete liar and every gaoled 'domestic' child abuser is innocent.
The law system and social services always prevent 'real abuse' and save kids from such horrors as psychologically controlling behaviours,or mental manipulation and a rule of fear of consequence, as well as physical or sexual abuse. After all, those in positions of power and trust wouldn't ever abuse or neglect their offices, now would they?

No answer required, as the query is rhetorical and court records, victim statements and many other forms of evidence say differently.

Parents would likely also be drug tested, but because services are confidential you would not know such things. You can't go on some premeditated murder spree magic or otherwise without anything beyond the word of obviously stressed children. It's also unbelievably irresponsible to create a post like this if you're getting involved with services. You don't want your referral including that you were looking to magically murder your children's step father, it's a mess you want to avoid. I would recommend deleting it. Consider trying individual child therapy or starting with family counseling, even if it is just you and the kids. I'd focus more on focused, calming, will strengthening magic rather than the exhausted and wasteful effort of destruction magic.

The OP did not seek, nor does he deserve a moralising lecture from you Hadit.

This is a hostile post that has no place in this topic.

Refrain from more of this ilk or sanctions will be applied. If you have no positive contribution to make to the thread, don't post in it. That is all.

Lol irrelevant? I'm a fucking child reunification specialist telling it like it is. What a joke!!!!!

[SolomonsChild]

Hadit -

I wish you well. But, you don't know this story. You aren't here living it. I am. What I have posted (much of which you obviously haven't read) is the 100% truth. I am also a psychologist that is telling it like it is. I have studied human behavior in great depth. And, my children are being tormented -- its only a matter of time until this man takes his abusive practices to the next level. He is a psychopath that is learning what he can get away with in the situation.

I appreciate the moderators response. I did not ask the advice of a reunification specialist. I asked the advice of other occultists as to how they would approach a problem that I am experiencing.

Be well.

[SolomonsChild]

WillowDarkWytch --

Thank you, thank you! I will PM you names later tonight when I am home from work. I appreciate any energy you can send their beautiful souls.

I also have many thoughts about Gevurah. That is a potent and real place to get energy. Although, results can be terrifying. I have used that before, and it was as if the wrath of god came down on someone that was truly evil. The only reason I haven't gone their all the way, yet, is because of the two children that are required to live through the shit-storm, so to speak. I am more cautious these days.

At any rate, I will definitely post some other questions to you as I get going.

[Desecrated]

but if the kids are still there then they are not being physically or sexually abused, and likely not emotionally abused. These things get children immediately removed from the house. Parents would likely also be drug tested, but because services are confidential you would not know such things.

What kind of utopia are you living in?

We had 4070 cases of child abuse and 2 440 cases of child rape.
5200 had some involvement from social service but only 300 kids were actually moved.
21 kids was beaten to death after years of abuse.

[Desecrated]

Thank you. It is an incredibly difficult situation. And, I know that a correct and well-planned solution is out there. I will look forward to learning your ideas for moving this forward.

Were are all the grandparents?
Do you have any, does she have any, does he have any?

Do you know what church they go to?

[Nahemah]

Lol irrelevant? I'm a fucking child reunification specialist telling it like it is. What a joke!!!!!

No, it is most certainly not a joke and given what you have just claimed, I am even more surprised at your aggressive tone and stance on this topic.

Hadit, your post was reported and moderation has been more than fair in regard to this matter. Your response above is not reasonable and says nothing other than you giving more of your own opinion, on your own posting here and doing so in an aggressive manner.

Any further discussion regarding this matter should be through the pm system, as any more posts of this ilk will not be tolerated.

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Please return to the discussion at hand now, folks.

[SolomonsChild]

Thank you. It is an incredibly difficult situation. And, I know that a correct and well-planned solution is out there. I will look forward to learning your ideas for moving this forward.

Were are all the grandparents?
Do you have any, does she have any, does he have any?

Do you know what church they go to?

1.The grandparents are in and out of the kids lives. My mother who lives in the area is deeply concerned for the kids and offered to help in any way she can. Their mother's parents are both dysfunctional and not really able to provide any assistance. I doubt they would care about the nature of my concerns or even be able to see what the issue is. They are from the deep south of the US.

2. My grandparents and the kids mom's parents are all deceased. My grandmother, was active in the occult. She came to me in a dream and gave me permission to use some of her grave dirt. She would not have tolerated this non-sense for two seconds. I have been considering the offer.

3. The step father is a Traditional Baptist.

[SolomonsChild]

Let's consider Hadit's response from a spiritual perspective.

Here are my annotations:

1. Two months ago I was doing deep energy work on behalf of these children to bring to light the issues they were facing with their new living arrangements and family members. One of the deals I made with a Jewish and powerful spirit was that the truth would come forward about their situation, that the obstacles that we were facing as a family would be manifested, and the path forward would be made clear. Mapping to a clear path, so to speak.

2. Hadit had what could be described as a visceral reaction to my post. In fact, I would say the response was disproportionate to the stimuli. Demanding that I set aside methods to resolve this, taking my will out of the situation, attacking my ability to do magick work, and just hostility in general.

3. Now, look at what Hadit claims to do for a living. Hadit is a "'reunification specialist". That means that Hadit is a major part of the system that is not helping my children and, in fact, is helping them stay in an environment where they can be further tormented. I have set aside Hadit's failing system and have taken matters into my own hands. Its that simple.

4. The energy Hadit brought forward to me is simply reactionary. Hadit is sensing that I have already done powerful work to break down a system that is not working. And, Hadit is embedded in that system. Of course Hadit will protest. My guess is the protestation was from the gut without any kind of logical thought.

5. Hadit now says that they cannot be a part of this forum (see departures). Let us hope that is an omen for the departure of the failing system, in the case of my children and the many others that deserve justice.

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OP, if you're so well versed why are you here for spells? It shows a lack of understanding of magic, and a lack of effort as you can create or literally google infinite different rituals.

Why bother coming to a discussion forum, where active practitioners gather, who may be able to help you with some practical tips and hints, ideas or ritual formats, or where there may be other magickal inclined persons who have previous field experience with the same or a similar situation?

Also, why look to gain potentially valuable support and perhaps even magickal assistance, from those of a similar mindset to oneself?

That would be plain silly and totally illogical wouldn't it.

A request for help was made, in the help folder of the forum. It is not for you, Hadit, to judge whether the subject matter or OP is valid or worthwhile.

That is why the forum is staffed, after all. Please don't engage like this again.

You need to be persistent with your services. If you're working with protective services then it is quite possible nothing is occurring. Sure some outdated punishment, but if the kids are still there then they are not being physically or sexually abused, and likely not emotionally abused. These things get children immediately removed from the house.

Absolutely, rigidly and dogmatically correct, as anyone ever who has given evidence or testimony that says otherwise is a complete liar and every gaoled 'domestic' child abuser is innocent.
The law system and social services always prevent 'real abuse' and save kids from such horrors as psychologically controlling behaviours,or mental manipulation and a rule of fear of consequence, as well as physical or sexual abuse. After all, those in positions of power and trust wouldn't ever abuse or neglect their offices, now would they?

No answer required, as the query is rhetorical and court records, victim statements and many other forms of evidence say differently.

Parents would likely also be drug tested, but because services are confidential you would not know such things. You can't go on some premeditated murder spree magic or otherwise without anything beyond the word of obviously stressed children. It's also unbelievably irresponsible to create a post like this if you're getting involved with services. You don't want your referral including that you were looking to magically murder your children's step father, it's a mess you want to avoid. I would recommend deleting it. Consider trying individual child therapy or starting with family counseling, even if it is just you and the kids. I'd focus more on focused, calming, will strengthening magic rather than the exhausted and wasteful effort of destruction magic.

The OP did not seek, nor does he deserve a moralising lecture from you Hadit.

This is a hostile post that has no place in this topic.

Refrain from more of this ilk or sanctions will be applied. If you have no positive contribution to make to the thread, don't post in it. That is all.

Lol irrelevant? I'm a fucking child reunification specialist telling it like it is. What a joke!!!!!

[Algiz]

Dear Friends,

1. The step father uses food as a punishment. My children go hungry because new step-dad is a "born again" christian that believes that kids only eat when they act right. I find this appalling. My kids won't tell the child protective workers what they have told me -- because they are afraid and terrified that their new step-dad will lose his temper and beat them.

2. My daughter, who is 13, as a punishment, had her door removed from her bedroom. No privacy. Totally humiliated by the members of the house. Have you ever watched your daughter be pridefully mocked? Her mother does nothing to protect these children. It is awful. I can think of no reason to take a door off a room of a 13 year old girl. (Well, I can think of one reason, and its not nice.)

3. Threats of violence. My children report that they are threatened physically, and I know its only a matter of time before this becomes a reality. I need to find a way to protect them. When an adult says that he will beat your children, I take that seriously.

4. The mother is the kind of woman that will do anything to make sure a man is in her life. The kids are basically second class citizens to the new low-life in her life.

5. Drugs have been brought into the home by other members of his family. My children now know what all kinds of drugs are, and I am disgusted by this.

6. The list of offenses goes on... My children, once bright and full of love and energy and positive life, are beat down and feeling awful. Its been a year since this man has been in their life full time. And, I see this situation devolving.

I don't want to be that guy that responds without reading the whole thread but I have limited time and will get to the point. You could always chaos bolt him. Here: https://arautodochaos.files.wordpress.c ... magick.pdf
Chaos Bolt instructions start on page 4 but you may prefer another method.

[SolomonsChild]

Chaos bolt. Never heard of it. I will do some research.

[Hadit]

Let's consider Hadit's response from a spiritual perspective.

Here are my annotations:

1. Two months ago I was doing deep energy work on behalf of these children to bring to light the issues they were facing with their new living arrangements and family members. One of the deals I made with a Jewish and powerful spirit was that the truth would come forward about their situation, that the obstacles that we were facing as a family would be manifested, and the path forward would be made clear. Mapping to a clear path, so to speak.

2. Hadit had what could be described as a visceral reaction to my post. In fact, I would say the response was disproportionate to the stimuli. Demanding that I set aside methods to resolve this, taking my will out of the situation, attacking my ability to do magick work, and just hostility in general.

3. Now, look at what Hadit claims to do for a living. Hadit is a "'reunification specialist". That means that Hadit is a major part of the system that is not helping my children and, in fact, is helping them stay in an environment where they can be further tormented. I have set aside Hadit's failing system and have taken matters into my own hands. Its that simple.

4. The energy Hadit brought forward to me is simply reactionary. Hadit is sensing that I have already done powerful work to break down a system that is not working. And, Hadit is embedded in that system. Of course Hadit will protest. My guess is the protestation was from the gut without any kind of logical thought.

5. Hadit now says that they cannot be a part of this forum (see departures). Let us hope that is an omen for the departure of the failing system, in the case of my children and the many others that deserve justice.

You got us, we do all this work and pour our hearts into these jobs just so children suffer. Pathetic. If you had the slightest inkling of what you're discussing, you'd know the rate of reunification is extremely low. Your problem is with original separation in the first place. Unless there are big warning signs separation won't happen, both as it can be traumatizing, and there simply aren't the funds or personal to address them. The corruption comes from outside the system, and I suggest you contact your politicians about the severely lacking funds put towards protective services.

But my intent in posting was multi faceted. For one, you're asking for magical ways to harm someone during an ongoing case. This makes you come off as violent and, to the uninitiated, unstable. Have you ever heard "to know, to will, to dare, to keep silent?" The access to destruction magic is easy and unlimited, from google search to a $10 satanic Bible at your local bookstore. Further, destruction magic has many big flaws. Foremost, it builds up negativity within you, because destruction magic is psychodrama. This is just going to make it more difficult to keep a level head. Another point was that we have nothing solid here. You did not mention bruises, concerning speech or thought, inappropriate questions, or anything of the sort from your children. I'm certainly not undermining controlling and threatening children, but the latter especially is hard to choose. Believing that protection services are somehow against you is the wrong mindset, because they very much are there for children, especially at the more direct levels (parent aides, in home service, caring families, etc ). The problems arise at government levels because they care more about saving money than helping people. We just recently closed a division because the proposed contract was unethical and cheap. But to distrust some of the people that can help you most is the wrong move.

What I recommend? You need to focus you magic at exposing any issues that truly exist so they can be dealt with. Be vigilant, and report it every time your children suggest something is abuse. But in the end, the OP does not provide anything solid, and examinations have obviously not turned up anything concrete. This, of course, does not guarantee no abuse is occurring. But exposing abuse is more than bruises, we are trained to read people, to pick up on body language, etc. If abuse is investigated every time it is required (in your case they'd likely be forced to respond in 24 hours) then it will come out sooner rather than later. I would also talk to your children, and stress the importance of honesty to investigators. You can't admit that they lie to the prevention teams, then blame the prevention team. If they admit it,things accelerate rather quickly.

But hey, don't listen to me.

[SolomonsChild]

Hadit - Nothing you write will sway my opinion. You are merely wasting your energy writing here. My family and my people have been practicing the occult arts for generations (count 'em!). I don't need your advice on the occult or magick or energy or anything. I came here for creative thoughts and support. You also forget that I work in the mental health field as a doctoral prepared professional. I will say no more to you. Its obvious that you are here to bring toxic thoughts into this work. So, I will take you up on your offer of not listening. Adios.

[Hadit]

Hadit - Nothing you write will sway my opinion. You are merely wasting your energy writing here. My family and my people have been practicing the occult arts for generations (count 'em!). I don't need your advice on the occult or magick or energy or anything. I came here for creative thoughts and support. You also forget that I work in the mental health field as a doctoral prepared professional. I will say no more to you. Its obvious that you are here to bring toxic thoughts into this work. So, I will take you up on your offer of not listening. Adios.

Fair enough, good luck to you. May you one day reject fideism.

[Kami]

Dear O.P.

Maybe I do have something to offer.

Before I do,
I must ask you,
What kind of drugs do you think is being used by this careless person?

Bath salts?
Heroin?

...

I never been around a heroin user so I have no way of helping you determine whether or not that is the problem.

...

But if it's anything similar to bath salts,
I have had a friend who ruined his life with that crap.

We used to smoke weed together,
We would watch movies and eat taco bell.

I don't know what loser initiated him into experimenting with that shit - but it killed me to lose him...

It started off with him always being alone.

He would make promises he couldn't keep.

I spent the night at his house hoping things would go back to normal,
But to my surprise - it didn't.

When his parents were at work,
He would take advantage of that.

He would be locked up in his room or bathroom for hours.

I would hear porn being played.

And it bothered the hell out of me...

...

When he finally came out - It would stink like either conditioner or spit... And it was gross.

His breath would stink,
And he looked paranoid and couldn't keep still.

I noticed that he would grind his teeth and move his feet a lot.

I asked him why that was,
He lied and said he was mad about something that he never elaborated on.

One day I found a pipe on a pile of his clothes,
And I asked him what it was and what he was doing with it,
He freaked out and told me not to tell his parents.

Though I am sure they somehow knew or had a hunch that he was abusing drugs - I didn't tell on him...

I didn't want him hating me...

...

Every now and then he would ask me if I wanted to spend the night and a have a few drinks and maybe smoke some weed.

But I lied to him and told him I was busy...

I didn't want to see him destroy himself...

And I know he wanted to use me to hide what he was doing.

He used alcohol and marijuana in attempt to hide his "coming down".

...

He got clean for a week.

And I thought we had a chance at being best friends again...

But I was wrong...

He was just trying to trick his parents into trusting him again.

...

He became messy and lazy and just str8 careless.

...

One night I had a vision of him smoking that crap.

And I woke up feeling alone.

...

I thought I would drop on by to check and see how he's doing.

But as I was arriving,
I saw him arguing with his parents,
They were yelling at him all the way out of the house,
Telling him to get help.

The mom was crying and the dad as well.

He looked at me and said nothing,
He walked off and I never heard from him since.

I don't keep in touch with his parents anymore...

But I hope to God that they're okay and I hope that my best friend is okay and not dead somewhere...

...

The last I talked to his parents,
They told me they caught him smoking out of a meth pipe...

His mom never would hug me,
But that day she did,
And man was she crying hard,
Saying "why" for several seconds...

The dad used to drink a lot,
But was sober for a year,
But now he's back to drinking.

...

I'm too afraid to go back to that house,
I don't like seeing his parents suffer...

...

The point I am trying to make here - is that if you ever have any visions of this guy you're talking about - doing drugs,
He probably is...

...

I'm not saying to believe everything you dream about,
But usually - when we have a vision,
It's because something bad or evil is coming to us or is around someone we love...

...

I hope the authorities do something about your situation quick!

I wish y'all the best of luck. ~

[WillowDarkWytch]

2. My grandparents and the kids mom's parents are all deceased. My grandmother, was active in the occult. She came to me in a dream and gave me permission to use some of her grave dirt. She would not have tolerated this non-sense for two seconds. I have been considering the offer.

My friend, I WOULD take that offer. It's an ancestor clearly offering its warfare abillities, AND she was an occultist, what else can we ask of it? Use her grave dirt on him. She want to deffend her descendants, that's what ancestors are for.

If you need instructions on extracting graveyard dirt and not having bad consequences to you or your house, PM me and I'll give you some hints on how to do it.

Saravá!
Idansinají

[Kami]

If child services need: "proof" - why don't they just make a request about creating a system where they allow drug abusers to use drugs in a controlled environment - like a lab or something - and observe how the drugs make them behave?

For example,
They could set up a room that looks like any ordinary room,
Have their test subject use the drug they have chosen to study the effects of,
And record how they behave?

I know that sounds like a waste of time,
But I don't think it is.

This would be a one time study,
A year long study - I guess.

...

They would need to find a drug addict that is really good at covering their tracks.

And another - who is completely careless and lazy and disgusting.

...

That way they will have a library of information to work with.

...

Aren't y'all tired of knowing that someone is doing drugs but cannot prove it in the court of law?

I think this would be a huge big step!

...

Also...

If someone who is being testified against cannot be proven to be guilty,
But is guilty - and has a history with breaking the law and has been convicted before,
Why not use that as leverage to test their blood for traces of drugs?

So that they can access the house and investigate?

Why not also bring a drug dog along?

...

I hope I don't get attacked for this,
Because I don't deserve that,
What I deserve - is - unbiased - non violent communication. ~

...

Anyways,
Someone who has nothing to hide will never turn down a drug test unless they do have something to hide,
Or... They just want to fight - because they are ignorant and probably have some hatred for the justice system,
E.T.C.

...

This should become law!

...

Maybe I should become a politician?

Nah - because I suck at life,
I will never amount to anything that powerful. :|

...

I already proposed a powerful method on how to force drug addicts to quit,
And here is how:

I did some research about genetic memories being passed onto heart transplantees,
And this goes for liver and almost any other organ,
But more evidently - in hearts. ~

If a criminal causes chaos and terror to their surroundings while under the influence of a controlled substance,
And are convicted of doing so,
They would be forced to have surgery - where first before surgery - they get their blood as sample for the doctors to see what blood type he or she is.

So that they can go find someome who is allergic to the drug they are condemning the abuser for,
Then take a sample from that persons heart *that is allergic to the drug in question* and use it to grow a heart in the lab that will have the same genetic structure of the allergic doner and then replace the convict's heart with that one - the person who is allergic to the drug in question would have to probably be blood type "o" or the same blood type as the convict so his or her body does not reject it.

This could take years,
So they should work on this now...

I put this together because like I said,
There are people who are allergic to drugs,
And also furthermore - people who have had heart transplants usually attain the doners characteristics and so and so forth.

I think that the genetic/neural structure of the heart is what matters when it comes to lethal allergies.

...

Maybe I sound cold blooded mentioning something as invasive as this - but...

What else can we do to win the war against drugs?

...

I'm all ears. ~
Or... Shall <(-@-)> say: "All Eyes". ~

O.O

[SolomonsChild]

Kurokami - I think your interest in visioning and divination is really to be commended. In this situation, however, I have not needed to divine much. I hopped on social media and read accounts of what this person wished to do to both my children and his for not "behaving". The best divination is the divination that we see with our own eyes.

[Kami]

In this situation, however, I have not needed to divine much. I hopped on social media and read accounts of what this person wished to do to both my children and his for not "behaving". The best divination is the divination that we see with our own eyes.

I totally agree!

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Also - check this out: http://www.popsci.com/researchers-found ... -meth-mice

Researchers found a way to erase memories in mice that are associated with crystal meth addiction.

Thought if you read it you will see that this treatment is also very dangerous like my theory about heart transplanting to fix addiction problems.

...

Think about it,
Let's say hypothetically - that you were in dire need of annew heart - and you were lucky enough to find a donor with the same blood type or the blood type: "o".
And received the surgery. ~

But embarrassingly - the doctor didn't check for allergies,
The hear that you now "hypothetically" have - is allergic to shrimp...

But you wouldn't know that...

Then one day you go to eat at an all you can eat buffet and end consuming some shrimp,
And then all of a sudden you end up being close to death or maybe even die.


That's what we should do with addicts,
With maybe a less lethal reaction. ~

[Desecrated]

Okay. Some actually thoughts on how to deal with this situation. (It's never to late to make a first impression. )

I'm assuming he is a bigger man than you physically otherwise you would have put him in the ground months ago. But you have some other options.
Make sure you dress better than him. Get a better car. Speak to him like you would speak to a child. Study his body language and see what makes him uncomfortable and then attack that. Ask him how it's going with "his little job". Take away his power from underneath.

Make a servitor that observes the house. Make a sigil that feeds of other peoples curiosity. Make some muffins. draw the sigil into the cake-batter.
Go around to every house on the block, all of his neighbors and introduce yourself, give them your contact information, preferable a business card with your professional title on it. Ask them politely to keep an eye on YOUR kids, and if anything happens, contact you.
(You're basically outmaneuvering his power here, as well as letting others know that he is a bad father.)The servitor will now watch the house through the eyes of the neighbors.

Go to his church, talk to his priest. Tell him whats going on. Ask his priest to look after YOUR children. Treat the priest well, take the priests power away from the stepdad.

[Desecrated]

And now, A quick warning about curses.

You could do a breakup ritual, but because that kind of magic destroys two lives. it's usually some fucking nasty magic and what ever normal karmic backdraft you would get, will now double.

Any sort of curses or bad luck against the stepdad, can easily turn on your children. You give him some bad jinx and he drives of the road. With your kids in the car.
Throw a curse on the house, your kids bedroom gets it worst.

This is why you never cast magic on family members, because it has a nasty habit on coming back to you in the end.

[Kami]

Okay. Some actually thoughts on how to deal with this situation.

It's never to late to make a first impression.

I'm assuming he is a bigger man than you physically otherwise you would have put him in the ground months ago.
But you have some other options.
Make sure you dress better than him. Get a better car. Speak to him like you would speak to a child. Study his body language and see what makes him uncomfortable and then attack that. Ask him how it's going with "his little job". Take away his power from underneath.

Make a servitor that observes the house. Make a sigil that feeds of other peoples curiosity. Make some muffins. draw the sigil into the cake-batter.
Go around to every house on the block, all of his neighbors and introduce yourself, give them your contact information, preferable a business card with your professional title on it. Ask them politely to keep an eye on YOUR kids, and if anything happens, contact you.
(You're basically outmaneuvering his power here, as well as letting others know that he is a bad father.)
The servitor will now watch the house through the eyes of the neighbors.

Go to his church, talk to his priest. Tell him whats going on. Ask his priest to look after YOUR children. Treat the priest well, take the priests power away from the stepdad.

I like your style when it comes to defending loved ones,
Psychological and Magickal warfare!

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@O.P. - This might just work,
But I suggest you learn how to defend yourself,
And learn how to safely disable or safely neutralize the enemy via pressure points!

[cactusjack543]

dismember?? total anilation hmm....

[corvidus]

The best divination is the divination that we see with our own eyes.

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