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Im wondering if theres a spell or a trance or a technique (something) to see if a spell has been placed on someone. (other then ones self) ? specifically if someones been enchanted or has been placed to love someone.
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how about ... feeling?
When you learn to feel more deeply, you realize the difference between lust, feeling good with someone or being obsessed by someone.
What is in fact love? Love is not something external to you, is a feeling that belongs to you, only for most it is only triggered by external factors and thus misinterpreted as being love toward someone/something.
So why are you concerned about being enchanted? As long as you enjoy it, go ahead and enjoy it (as i said, it is about your feelings, the triggering object is less important, so better enjoy it). If you don't enjoy it, then stop it. That simple.
It's only your choice.
When you learn to feel more deeply, you realize the difference between lust, feeling good with someone or being obsessed by someone.
What is in fact love? Love is not something external to you, is a feeling that belongs to you, only for most it is only triggered by external factors and thus misinterpreted as being love toward someone/something.
So why are you concerned about being enchanted? As long as you enjoy it, go ahead and enjoy it (as i said, it is about your feelings, the triggering object is less important, so better enjoy it). If you don't enjoy it, then stop it. That simple.
It's only your choice.
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no, i mean i get the whole sensing and empathy but...... okay heres the deal. my buddy is pretty much smitten by this one female. i mean he has done things that you wouldnt believe for this female. and he's only known her for 4 months. barely sees her. they are on the phone most of the time. and most of the time they are arguing. and he asked me if he should stay with her, and i told him my peace and to look to his spirit guide/ guardian and apparently it asked him if he really loved her. and then i told him its his choice and he was like " you dont get it, you dont have free will when your inlove" which makes me wonder... wtf.... but im not an novice to go ahead and put something into motion ( i.e magic/mystics) without getting all the details. so im wondering how to tell on someone else with out them nowing cause another thing. he wont to anything mystical when it comes to this relationship ( so im thinking a protective precaution done on him) why im thinking if he got enchanted or something.
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So i see. On one hand he lust for her, and the less they see each other the more he wants her because his mind built an image of that girl, and now he no longer sees her as she is, he sees her through that image. And until the image is broken, he will continue to crave for her.
On the other hand he fears to leave her. There could be many apparent reasons for this fear, but eventually they reduce to the fear of being alone (which ultimately leads to the deeply unconscious fear of death).
I would suggest a more practical approach: go out with him and meet other women who are good companies, so he can start to use his analytic mind and start to compare between different girls.
After that he can clarify his thoughts about that girl. Until then ... he'll just be the slave of his emotions.
I doubt that he was especially spell bound to love her, since that's the very nature of most people. The less attention they receive, the more they crave for attention and approval.
And once the spark is born, it either burns slowly causing an obsession, or it is replaced by other spark and forgot or it is ends up in a flame and eventually ends, if it not fueled anymore.
About the free will, he's right. But not only when involved, most of the time we don't have free will
Now, it might be a lesson he needs to learn in order to awake something within him or to resolve something. Give him space and let him come to you for help. If you continue to offer your help you will be perceived as an enemy.
On the other hand he fears to leave her. There could be many apparent reasons for this fear, but eventually they reduce to the fear of being alone (which ultimately leads to the deeply unconscious fear of death).
I would suggest a more practical approach: go out with him and meet other women who are good companies, so he can start to use his analytic mind and start to compare between different girls.
After that he can clarify his thoughts about that girl. Until then ... he'll just be the slave of his emotions.
I doubt that he was especially spell bound to love her, since that's the very nature of most people. The less attention they receive, the more they crave for attention and approval.
And once the spark is born, it either burns slowly causing an obsession, or it is replaced by other spark and forgot or it is ends up in a flame and eventually ends, if it not fueled anymore.
About the free will, he's right. But not only when involved, most of the time we don't have free will
Now, it might be a lesson he needs to learn in order to awake something within him or to resolve something. Give him space and let him come to you for help. If you continue to offer your help you will be perceived as an enemy.
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"Give him space and let him come to you for help." Wise words.
I would add to this topic, but frozenok has already posted what I would have to say on the matter.You are a good friend for caring and offering help,but pushing him too much on this will alienate him from you and that would make helping him more difficult later on,if he should need or want it.
I would add to this topic, but frozenok has already posted what I would have to say on the matter.You are a good friend for caring and offering help,but pushing him too much on this will alienate him from you and that would make helping him more difficult later on,if he should need or want it.
"He lived his words, spoke his own actions and his story and the story of the world ran parallel."
Sartre speaking of Che Guevara.
Sartre speaking of Che Guevara.
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hmm interesting perspective. but im still worried. they have become so interdependant on eachother. they are distroying eachothers psyche, idk. i just really dont like staying in the back and doing nothing. but i will take both opinions (even though they are the same ones :-) ) oint o heavy consideration, thank you.
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Good.We are not saying don't care or don't help,it's thinking smarter instead of harder.Who would you rather be....the guy who said I told you so or the sympathetic shoulder he cries on,if or when it all goes wrong? 
"He lived his words, spoke his own actions and his story and the story of the world ran parallel."
Sartre speaking of Che Guevara.
Sartre speaking of Che Guevara.
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The first part is very tempting ... "i told you so" -> very hard to resist to it since it puts you on a position of: i was right, you were wrong -> i am better than you.Nahemah wrote:Good.We are not saying don't care or don't help,it's thinking smarter instead of harder.Who would you rather be....the guy who said I told you so or the sympathetic shoulder he cries on,if or when it all goes wrong?