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Hello all, I'm quite new on this website.. Anyways, I'm just wondering if there is any love spells that I could use to make myself more attractive or rather to let love flow through me. As much as I'd love to have a spell to attract a specific beautiful person to me to marry and whatnot, I realize that's just the desires of the ego and you can't really control others. So... I'd rather find some spell or practices/theories of letting love constantly flow through me so whatever work I do from within, the universe manifests better results for me as a result (attracting whomever the universe deems appropriate for me, and of course, you only attract what you are).

Forgive me if some people can't understand my post here, the general idea is just letting divine love flow through me so my inner work with light can flow in abundance in the universe so I attract better results. Some of you may know more of what I'm seeking here, and if some of you know more than I do about this area, PLEASE post that stuff and I ask of you to let me know better ideas or theories that could be WAY more beneficial if any of the ways of working with the forces of the universe I'm posting here may not actually be that great to do.

I hope some of you can give me quite helpful guidance here on this topic, whatever ideas you may have that you post here, it is greatly appreciated and I thank you all for your contribution to the way I practice things...

Peace to all !

I'm not an adept but a beginner, but I feel that I should write this: "what you sow is what you reap"

This works for me.

The two greatest "love spells" I ever cast were simply to Be Myself, and to Love like The Sun. For the Sun need not chase after Venus, wreaking havoc in his wake; he merely stands centered in his own nature and radiates his Love for all who are open to his blessing. Like this, Venus happily falls into his orbit, and Love simply is.

Discover yourself, be true to yourself, and Love.

Love is The Law, Love under Will.



~:Shin:~

Well Shinichi it sounds as if you've got this under control already with respect to your spirit and awareness, which are the two greatest influences on the topic. If things aren't going in a direction you'd like, you might want to examine other aspects of yourself. Examine yourself dispassionately and evaluate things about yourself that are attractive to the type of person you want to meet. Then consider the aspects of yourself, which might repel someone you'd like to meet. Be honest. After that you may want to organize these into categories like the things you're willing and would like to improve, those things you're not, and the order of difficulty in making the improvements. Begin where you want, but it's often best to start with the easy stuff. Early successes will give you the confidence to continue development. Remember that you are making changes really for yourself, not others. For example, if you're a chainsmoker and want to find someone into health, you might want to consider smoking cessation (nothing against all you chainsmokers out there!).

Another powerful method to make a love spell more effective is to visit places where the type of person you want might be likely to hang out. Events like pagan fests may or may not be the right thing, but pagan courses and meetings might.

Lastly, there are books full of good spells in any used bookstore. Browse through them and the right spell will literally just POP OUT at you. You'll know it when it does. Spells that work for someone else may or may not work for you. [wink]

I am quite cranky and short tempered at the moment. This is a very timely topic for me.

The first thing you need to do is forget the notion of a love spell. What you're talking about isn't a spell and it isn't about loving others. That's just a byproduct of what you're considering.

Letting divine love flow through you has to do with the Inner Work and Self Work that we do. Some people don't believe in divinity while others do. That love that you're talking about won't be found in spellcraft.

Practice compassion, random acts of kindness, get in touch with the things that bring out those feelings in you. Go sit in the woods or a park, close your eyes and feel what it around you.

Remember that in all things there is a balance to be found. You can't be all white light and love while ignoring the rest of who and what you are.

There's a story from NA culture (I don't know where it originated from but it's a beautiful lesson). There are two wolves inside you. One is angry, aggressive and does hurtful things. The other is loyal to the pack, cares for others and strives for the betterment of all things. Which one is stronger? That depends on which one are you going to feed.

(If anyone knows or has a link to this story - please share)

I would protest the usage of the terms "good" and "evil," since in my experience they are not. Still, it is a good story.



~:Shin:~

Thank you, Shin.

I do understand your protest with the specific words but as a general idea - it gets it's point across.

Thank you for your posts.. greatly appreciated. I can see the knowledge you're trying to imply here regarding my post. One listens to others as well as he listens to himself, study man to know more about thyself and if ignorance is spotted, take it as a great lesson to yourself so you may know to avoid those "low frequencies". I do agree though that you have to be aware of every quality of yourself, even the negative aspect, for you can't really improve if you don't know your negative side and how to overcome that side of you. It's duality, you're always going to have a negative side and a positive, but they're both two sides of the same coin. Even the negative has positive stuff to learn from but it's easier said than done on sorting out the positives from the negatives.

That's just Shadow Work. It's not so much about overcoming as it is about integration.

Than what is it really about? Please, I'd love to hear your individual theories/beliefs on this.. I love having people engage and spread their own views on different ideas and everyone had something you can learn from so... Feel free to talk more "in depth" of what you're saying! Not just so I can lean more about this stuff I'm posting, but so others can maybe learn a thing or two.

The point is not to feed the wolves, but to love and transcend them both. When both wolves do not fight, but sit still in familial love, neither wolf wins -- you do.

"Monk With No Name:
It's not about anger - it's about peace. It's not about power - it's about grace. It's not about knowing your enemy - it's about knowing yourself." -- Bullet Proof Monk.

“Violence begets violence; vengeance begets vengeance; peace begets peace.” -- Peace.

Instead of choosing a side of yourself to feed, be your whole self. And in this realization, be the self that you choose to be, instead of the self that others have made.



~:Shin:~

Let's say that you find a potion or magical chant that allow you to make anyone fall in love with you, would you be happy to pass the rest of your life with the doubt about this person really loving you or just loving the spell that you made?

Have you taken a stroll though the older threads here? The search bar on the upper right is great, too, if you want to check out anything specific.

Hookko wrote:Let's say that you find a potion or magical chant that allow you to make anyone fall in love with you, would you be happy to pass the rest of your life with the doubt about this person really loving you or just loving the spell that you made?

I'd rather not meddle with anything like that... I "think" love is not something that you can really forcefully control, as with many other things. I'd rather let love flow on it's own course, work on bettering myself and others, and maybe one day I'll attract somebody that's really great for me when the time is right.

Remember, the target does not necessarily have to be another person. He could instead cast one on himself, that makes himself more appealing to the opposite sex, helps bring together someone who feels in a similar manner to him etc

There is nothing wrong with these workings when they properly thought through first.

Tris3021 wrote:

Hookko wrote:Let's say that you find a potion or magical chant that allow you to make anyone fall in love with you, would you be happy to pass the rest of your life with the doubt about this person really loving you or just loving the spell that you made?

I'd rather not meddle with anything like that... I "think" love is not something that you can really forcefully control, as with many other things. I'd rather let love flow on it's own course, work on bettering myself and others, and maybe one day I'll attract somebody that's really great for me when the time is right.

Study Chivalry, Honor, and the classical ideal of Courtly Romance. Not the silly novels or the stupid advice column in Men's Health, learn what real Romance is: sincere words and actions which come from the heart, expressing Love and Desire in noble, witty, and respectable ways. Learn a little poetry, learn the arts of love, learn how to express yourself even if you need to take a Public Speaking or Interpersonal Communication class, and just be a good guy. Real nice guys don't finish last, especially the nice guys who have a backbone and stand strong in their word and will without being rude or immature.

The best attraction spell in the world, whether you cast it on somebody else or on yourself, won't help a jerk (which isn't to say you are one, but rather in general). Even if it starts great, it'll only go down hill from there. If you learn how to express yourself, and learn how to treat a woman right, you won't need the spell in the first place.

As I said, Sol does not chase after Venus. Sol is Sol, and she happily orbits him because he is. This does not mean that you should be passive and submissive, per se, unless that's your thing. It means that you should be you, and the best you that you can be.

Such improvements take time, so get in your head a firm idea of who you want to become and start working towards that. She'll thank you later. [wink]



~:Shin;~