Would like to attract a succubus...

[cire0991]

I would like to attract a succubus in order to have, shall we say, "relations."

My feelings towards sex are complex and confusing. I consider myself a straight male, but have fantasies of being penetrated by other men, or imagining myself as a victim being taken advantage of. I am in a long term relationship with my gf but our sex life is spotty. I have always had a high sex drive but have been too shy around girls to act on it.

I've heard stories of people being assaulted by a succubus. This sounds like something I would actually enjoy, as screwed up as that may sound. I would like to attract one. But I have younger siblings and don't want to put them in danger, either. How can I keep this confined to myself?

I also have a colorful spiritual past. I practiced mantra meditation a lot when I was younger and attained to a state that I believe was samadhi. My body disappeared and there was only the mantra. I got interested in Buddhism and tried insight meditation. It got really interesting, I started seeing colors with my eyes closed and having vivid dreams, but then everything fell apart. I couldn't meditate and I had feelings of disgust, desire for liberation, and so on. This is par for the course with insight meditation, it's called the dukkha nanas, but I was not prepared. I stopped meditating and have had very dark feelings about the world for about two years now.

How do I attract a succubus?

[Ramscha]

How do I attract a succubus?

There is a search function in the upper right corner. You should be able to find sufficient answers and threads. We had this topic in threads beyond count because it seems most newcomers aren't able to type in a word into a question field and to take a few hours to skim the result and do their research.

Ramscha

[cire0991]

How do I attract a succubus?

There is a search function in the upper right corner. You should be able to find sufficient answers and threads. We had this topic in threads beyond count because it seems most newcomers aren't able to type in a word into a question field and to take a few hours to skim the result and do their research.

Ramscha

Honestly I figured it was an uncommon request because of how "taboo" it is. I'm surprised that I'm not the only one. Thank you, I will do a search.

[Cybernetic_Jazz]

Don't.

Explore your sexuality, explore it in your inner worlds, even create beings in your inner world to help you figure it out - actively or passively. There's no predicate I'm aware of which would state that they be a parasite in order to aid you in this respect. Inviting a sexual leech to come live with you is like inviting an economic or social leech to come live with you. If you ever had that person in your life you helped once and from then on you'd be getting voicemails every couple days "Halp! Haaalp!! Its an emergency!" at little dumb things or the friend/acquaintance from years ago who shows up needing a place to live but won't work and wants to smoke in your living room all day while eating your food, watching TV, and not paying rent - why invite that into your life on any level? You simply have too many better options.

[Ramscha]

How do I attract a succubus?

There is a search function in the upper right corner. You should be able to find sufficient answers and threads. We had this topic in threads beyond count because it seems most newcomers aren't able to type in a word into a question field and to take a few hours to skim the result and do their research.

Ramscha

Honestly I figured it was an uncommon request because of how "taboo" it is. I'm surprised that I'm not the only one. Thank you, I will do a search.

It is a quite common request. Well, I guess the situation of "taboos" is here a bit different then it is outside.

What you do and what you summon is up to you. However, reconsider the point mentioned above about how to deal with your own sexlife when it gets boring and stuff. No moral preaching, just a practical consideration.

Ramscha

[Frumens]

I couldn't meditate and I had feelings of disgust, desire for liberation, and so on. This is par for the course with insight meditation, it's called the dukkha nanas, but I was not prepared. I stopped meditating and have had very dark feelings about the world for about two years now.

Are you familiar with Daniel Ingram's book and websites? Summoning a succubus is exactly the sort of thing a destabilized dark night yogi would do.

[Rin]

You realize that succubi are astral entities right? You can't literally have sex with one, the experience would be closer to a wet dream, if you even pulled it off.

It sounds like what you really need to do is figure out why your sex life with your GF is messed up and learn how to be a bit more confident about your desires to overcome unhealthy inhibitions (it seems possible to me that the two are related).