How to deal with someone who is trying to intimidate me?

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How to deal with someone who is trying to intimidate me?

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How do I deal with intimidation properly?

Okay... so there's this *strong willed* "thug" woman - threatening my household.

She sent me a violent text message and... that got me all flared up.

So I replied back to her text-msg and told her that she shouldn't be threatening me or my family, and that only terrorists use intimidation to manipulate the innocent, and also that if she tried anything - that would be the last thing she does.

I thought that my text-msg reply would straighten her out,
But nope; she's still talking sh*t.

So I decided to download a *number blocking* application from the playstore so that I could have that app ready to block her number - right after I leave her with one more message; and this is the last message that I sent her:
[I’m sorry. I know you’re speaking, I see your lips moving, but I can’t understand what you’re saying ’cause I don’t speak little b*tch.

Get a life you f*cking loser,
And lose my number you pathetic *ss b*tch.

Game over you lamer,
You lost,
And F*CK your coward *ss friends.]

...

I grabbed my dice,
*I only have one*,
And then as I was shaking my hand with the "die" in it - I asked my "higher self" that exists in the future: "If this lowlife is coming to my house to start some drama, let this be a; "2" - and then when I had tossed it, it landed on a "2"...

So now I am expecting her arrival,
Even though she may not come by,
I feel that I must be vigilant and prepared.

...

What can I do to stop feeling anxiety?
And - Did I do the right thing?
N' - How could I have handled that situation better?

Bewiz - Never Going Down:
I remember having had a dream about me being at gun point.

This dream was a few weeks ago,
And this is what happened in the dream:

It starts off like this...

I was in my little brothers room and when I opened the door of his room to leave it,
My little brother frantically runs up to me from the living room and says: "When I opened our living door - a man shoved me as I was trying to leave the house to go to the skate park...",
And when he said this to me I grew furious!
So I wanted get some justice and ran out our front door and confronted that man,
But it was too late for me,
He was half way into the car that had a woman in the *front right* passenger seat,
And when he had seen me coming towards him,
He quickly grabbed something; Gets out of the car and points a silver revolver at me - and then after that scene... I wake up.

...

Should I be worried?

Was my "higher self" warning me about this wicked woman?

I had this dream weeks before she interacted with us.

...

For now - I am going to go watch the movie: "Four Brothers",
In order to invoke the spirit of courage within me.

I have a "box cutter" with me - just in case something does go down; because I will not be fighting with my fists,
I will be fighting with my mouth and this blade. ~
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Re: How to deal with someone who is trying to intimidate me?

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Yes, on pretty much all questions I found. You handled this situation poorly, and you should probably be worried about some time of repercussions coming from your actions, especially if your dreams and divinations have been telling you such.

The best way to avoid someones intimidation is to simply ignore them, and don't give them the satisfaction of actually bothering you. Some simple centering and grounding is exactly made for this. Calm yourself and your emotions, and let the emotions of others' pass through you.

I wouldn't necessarily worry that this will be a violent confrontation (as in, physically.) If there is one at all.

Either way, prepare yourself as best as possible for the worst, and bring a Katana to a gun fight.
Keep the local law enforcement on speed dial just in case.
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Re: How to deal with someone who is trying to intimidate me?

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See it as a pendulum what energy you give in, similar results will follow. If you give the same energy that pendulum already has (frustration, anger) this is what you'll have back. Your dream seems to be warning you about rash decisions, so work on controlling your anger. Some of the people I met seem to enjoy the frustration other person is feeling in the moment and will try to see where you edge is. On the other hand some will try to find the reason to attack you.

Use this knowledge to defend yourself. If you are fully present in the situation, let the intensity of emotion pass through you by not letting it influence and change the mind-state, you should be on the high ground concerning the opponent. Let her bitch, scream, even try to hit you - hell man if she has steady financial gain, hit her on the pocket as soon as she does you physical harm by letting the judges and jury do their job. Just avoid giving energy to the pendulum to quickly deal with the situation.

Be civilized. Deal with it like you're dealing with a child or an tame, anxious animal.

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Re: How to deal with someone who is trying to intimidate me?

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@Haelos
@EternalReturn

Thank y'all for supporting me through that stressful situation,
I couldn't feel more blessed. ~
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Over arguing with a fool. ~

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Re: How to deal with someone who is trying to intimidate me?

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I think the best way to prevent this kind of situation is to avoid getting in it in first place. How do you know this woman? Why is she intimidating you? These are questions you need to ask yourself and see where it went wrong. I think your provocative text messages weren't necessery either. You should have let this thing die. If it didn't, you could call the authorities and she'd find herself in trouble.

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