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[QUOTE=Sushumma]Man, what can I say, that must be quite a handful to deal with. Sexuality is such an irrational force that it can be quite difficult to master and remove the negative "charge" from such experiences.
Dealing with sexual shame and conflicting reactions could be a topic for a different thread even; difficult things like this have very little bearing on "holistic sexuality".[/QUOTE]
yes good topic idea Sushumma.
Durki - its impossible to express in words how sorry I am for what happened to you.
Rape, pedophilia, incest and bestiality are not at all "choices" Im referring to when i talk about celebrating the erotic in life in all its aspects.
Anyone who has suffered a sexual wound needs to heal; the hatred and vilification of sexuality can be useful for a time. Ultimately though, healing is complete when sexuality is reclaimed. What was done to you should not steal away your future happiness. Those people are deviant sadists and Im so sorry you were hurt by them.
My heart goes out to you.
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Yes, a despicable fate to befall anyone. But wise words above from Fera, Durki. Remember - what doesn't kill, makes us stronger.
Yes, a despicable fate to befall anyone. But wise words above from Fera, Durki. Remember - what doesn't kill, makes us stronger.
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Original post: Sud Ram
It's good that you feel better after expressing your terrible experience durki. I sincerely hope that you can work through this trauma and use it as a tool rather than an obstacle. I wish you the best in this difficult task of finding forgiveness and compassion.
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It's good that you feel better after expressing your terrible experience durki. I sincerely hope that you can work through this trauma and use it as a tool rather than an obstacle. I wish you the best in this difficult task of finding forgiveness and compassion.
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Thanks for sympathy and kind words. To have holistic sex culture on earth, we should divest earth of any thing that is unholy. I see from beast-exotic and other animal-sex sites that this menace is rising very fast in Brazil, USA, Canada and other countries. Not only animals but even reptiles & birds have been included. Some thing has to be done to arrest this trend otherwise innocent girls will get maimed.
Thanks for sympathy and kind words. To have holistic sex culture on earth, we should divest earth of any thing that is unholy. I see from beast-exotic and other animal-sex sites that this menace is rising very fast in Brazil, USA, Canada and other countries. Not only animals but even reptiles & birds have been included. Some thing has to be done to arrest this trend otherwise innocent girls will get maimed.
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Original post: durki
There have to be catalytic nuclei of Golden Love at various points on earth. These people will create ripples which will change for better lives of the people in their respective neighbourhoods. All humans will outgrow unholy bestial tendencies to shower divine affection ( instead of indulgence ) on beasts, birds, reptiles, trees, flora & fauna and even land, sea and air to translate planet earth into a heavenly paradise.
There have to be catalytic nuclei of Golden Love at various points on earth. These people will create ripples which will change for better lives of the people in their respective neighbourhoods. All humans will outgrow unholy bestial tendencies to shower divine affection ( instead of indulgence ) on beasts, birds, reptiles, trees, flora & fauna and even land, sea and air to translate planet earth into a heavenly paradise.
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Original post: durki
When lower chakras are over-activated & upper chakras are under-activated, then man conducts in bestial fashion.
Also intake of food & surrounding atmosphere should be moderated & regulated because mind is not impervious to these influences.
We are made in the image of God and so conquest of sex is certainly not impossible for us.
When lower chakras are over-activated & upper chakras are under-activated, then man conducts in bestial fashion.
Also intake of food & surrounding atmosphere should be moderated & regulated because mind is not impervious to these influences.
We are made in the image of God and so conquest of sex is certainly not impossible for us.
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Original post: spiritalk
On death the physical body dies, along with all its organs. With this death, the physical/material urges die as well. No sex in the afterlife. And as a friend was want to say...no sex, I'm not going! lol. And that isn't even an option!
If the spirit is our spirituality, then sex has nothing to do with spirituality. Just my rational thoughts on the matter.
God bless, J
On death the physical body dies, along with all its organs. With this death, the physical/material urges die as well. No sex in the afterlife. And as a friend was want to say...no sex, I'm not going! lol. And that isn't even an option!
If the spirit is our spirituality, then sex has nothing to do with spirituality. Just my rational thoughts on the matter.
God bless, J
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Original post: Larinho
[QUOTE=durki;245294]When lower chakras are over-activated & upper chakras are under-activated, then man conducts in bestial fashion.
Also intake of food & surrounding atmosphere should be moderated & regulated because mind is not impervious to these influences.
We are made in the image of God and so conquest of sex is certainly not impossible for us.[/QUOTE]
What's your background philosophy, any connection to some specific thoughts?
[QUOTE=durki;245294]When lower chakras are over-activated & upper chakras are under-activated, then man conducts in bestial fashion.
Also intake of food & surrounding atmosphere should be moderated & regulated because mind is not impervious to these influences.
We are made in the image of God and so conquest of sex is certainly not impossible for us.[/QUOTE]
What's your background philosophy, any connection to some specific thoughts?
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Original post: durki
Yes, pranic healing and esotoric science. Master Choa Kok Sui is authority on this subject.
Larinho;245348 wrote:What's your background philosophy, any connection to some specific thoughts?
Yes, pranic healing and esotoric science. Master Choa Kok Sui is authority on this subject.
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Original post: spiritalk
"Not only life of the flesh and life of the spirit are compatible with each other but they are interdependant, symbiotic and integral to each other. If your physical life is sound & healthy, your spiritual life will be so much richer and vice-versa. One of the greatest saints of India, Tuka Ram Maharaj, had his last child posthumously much time after his death but certainly before 9 months."
We are body, mind, spirit in a symbiotic relationship in this material vibration. We also have an eternal spirit/mind that continues when this life is through. Only the material vibration is no longer valid and the body rots and dies. The spirit/soul continues and is eternal.
When we leave the material body behind we also leave all the physical/material urges (sex included) that attracts us to lust or love. The higher thoughts of love are still available to us in mind/spirit/soul.
God bless, J
"Not only life of the flesh and life of the spirit are compatible with each other but they are interdependant, symbiotic and integral to each other. If your physical life is sound & healthy, your spiritual life will be so much richer and vice-versa. One of the greatest saints of India, Tuka Ram Maharaj, had his last child posthumously much time after his death but certainly before 9 months."
We are body, mind, spirit in a symbiotic relationship in this material vibration. We also have an eternal spirit/mind that continues when this life is through. Only the material vibration is no longer valid and the body rots and dies. The spirit/soul continues and is eternal.
When we leave the material body behind we also leave all the physical/material urges (sex included) that attracts us to lust or love. The higher thoughts of love are still available to us in mind/spirit/soul.
God bless, J
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Original post: Larinho
The harmony of body and soul is pure attraction.
That's how it should be. But reality is that most people are sexually frustrated. I hope most people here can find peace in love, however there are many who desperately desire for sex and this is a kind of violence.
There are a lot of issues around sex that play role. The way people interact is an important rulefactor. Pure attraction is always canalized in a sort of game. You play the game and with to many mistakes it's game over. So when people start losing often they build up frustration. In the end is the whole idea of yes or no that brings this about.
The harmony of body and soul is pure attraction.
That's how it should be. But reality is that most people are sexually frustrated. I hope most people here can find peace in love, however there are many who desperately desire for sex and this is a kind of violence.
There are a lot of issues around sex that play role. The way people interact is an important rulefactor. Pure attraction is always canalized in a sort of game. You play the game and with to many mistakes it's game over. So when people start losing often they build up frustration. In the end is the whole idea of yes or no that brings this about.
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Original post: Khoen
I agree.
But it isn't only body and soul there is more involved. Harmony of body and soul Does reflect to the outside world and is pure attraction, but it isn't the only thing.
Apart from that: you can't attract everybody too you. People are attracted to you or not and nothing can change either option.
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Ps If this Topic starts rolling I'll post a more expanded version of this post
I agree.
But it isn't only body and soul there is more involved. Harmony of body and soul Does reflect to the outside world and is pure attraction, but it isn't the only thing.
Apart from that: you can't attract everybody too you. People are attracted to you or not and nothing can change either option.
Koen
Ps If this Topic starts rolling I'll post a more expanded version of this post
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It would be nice to expand this topic.
So I agree on that attraction is very multifaced. Somehow I also do not understand these matters at all. Frustration is like a drive with a very narrow view, and sometimes it's like forcing two incompatible polarities together.
Fun that we're talking about sexual frustration here, since this threads aim was holistic sex. But the founder of this thread didn't seem to much integrated with these matters. So true this is were it's been leading to.
As far as my part in this, I sometimes feel such a drive to. However I try to be indifferent then. Really, sometimes I feel polarities grinding together, totally incompatible but forced together by a strange combination of thoughts and mood.
So what I mean it starts within, maybe out of ignorance, I dunno. But what I see driving people to obsessive behavior towards woman (so I'm talking the male side), is also present in myself. Just that I use indifference doesn't makes me better, but I jjust try to release the veil of it.
This all comes down to 'going with the flow', doing the waterstuff. Attraction sometimes blocks the way, ignorance been sucked in, and restraint is just before you realize another path for the water to flow.
It would be nice to expand this topic.
So I agree on that attraction is very multifaced. Somehow I also do not understand these matters at all. Frustration is like a drive with a very narrow view, and sometimes it's like forcing two incompatible polarities together.
Fun that we're talking about sexual frustration here, since this threads aim was holistic sex. But the founder of this thread didn't seem to much integrated with these matters. So true this is were it's been leading to.
As far as my part in this, I sometimes feel such a drive to. However I try to be indifferent then. Really, sometimes I feel polarities grinding together, totally incompatible but forced together by a strange combination of thoughts and mood.
So what I mean it starts within, maybe out of ignorance, I dunno. But what I see driving people to obsessive behavior towards woman (so I'm talking the male side), is also present in myself. Just that I use indifference doesn't makes me better, but I jjust try to release the veil of it.
This all comes down to 'going with the flow', doing the waterstuff. Attraction sometimes blocks the way, ignorance been sucked in, and restraint is just before you realize another path for the water to flow.
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Original post: durki
Consensus is yet to arrive on correct frequency of sexual intercourses / auto semenal emissions. This frequency is not absolute but depends upon number of factors. Frequency increases with hot climate, rainy weather, intake of alcohol, eggs, milk, non-vegatarian & rich foods not to mention the surrounding atmosphere of promiscuity. Frequency decreases with holy books & company, spiritual practices, grace of divine masters et cetera.
These semenal / oval discharges in themeslves are necessary to cleanse our system of toxins because semen / ova which can not be translated into higher energies needs to be removed. But what is harmful is the negative effect on our bio-system of psychological guilt feeling about it due to religious conditionings which proclaim sexual emissions as evil.
If a man & woman, who love each other from heart, cohabit then the generated symbiotic interaction definitely elevates them both spiritually.
To me, normal or optimal frequency of these said ejaculations seems to be once in a week preferably on friday because this day is governed by venus which is planet of love & sex. As you persist in spiritual practices, the frequency reduces until after prolonged period of spiritual evolution, the ideal frequency of semenal / oval ejaculations tends to zero.
Consensus is yet to arrive on correct frequency of sexual intercourses / auto semenal emissions. This frequency is not absolute but depends upon number of factors. Frequency increases with hot climate, rainy weather, intake of alcohol, eggs, milk, non-vegatarian & rich foods not to mention the surrounding atmosphere of promiscuity. Frequency decreases with holy books & company, spiritual practices, grace of divine masters et cetera.
These semenal / oval discharges in themeslves are necessary to cleanse our system of toxins because semen / ova which can not be translated into higher energies needs to be removed. But what is harmful is the negative effect on our bio-system of psychological guilt feeling about it due to religious conditionings which proclaim sexual emissions as evil.
If a man & woman, who love each other from heart, cohabit then the generated symbiotic interaction definitely elevates them both spiritually.
To me, normal or optimal frequency of these said ejaculations seems to be once in a week preferably on friday because this day is governed by venus which is planet of love & sex. As you persist in spiritual practices, the frequency reduces until after prolonged period of spiritual evolution, the ideal frequency of semenal / oval ejaculations tends to zero.
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Original post: durki
It has been quite upsetting for me to see children below 16 and old people above 64 years of age involving themselves in sexual activities. Whereas children have been found watching immoral movies, old people have been found desiring young ones & also taking vicarious pleasures through sensuous actions of others.
Whereas children have middle age ( 25 - 55 years ) ahead of them to involve themselves in such activities and now they better concentrate on studies, old people should have fulfilled their desires earlier so that now they can concentrate on spiritual activities. Such old people can fulfill their desires in astral sphere if they are minor ones but in case desires are of intensely physical nature then they will be required to take another physical re-incarnation on earth.
It has been quite upsetting for me to see children below 16 and old people above 64 years of age involving themselves in sexual activities. Whereas children have been found watching immoral movies, old people have been found desiring young ones & also taking vicarious pleasures through sensuous actions of others.
Whereas children have middle age ( 25 - 55 years ) ahead of them to involve themselves in such activities and now they better concentrate on studies, old people should have fulfilled their desires earlier so that now they can concentrate on spiritual activities. Such old people can fulfill their desires in astral sphere if they are minor ones but in case desires are of intensely physical nature then they will be required to take another physical re-incarnation on earth.
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Original post: durki
Homo-sexuality seems to be a sugar-coated poison. Except for some psychological satisfaction & momentary physical ecstatic pleasure during glandular secretions, it brings more woe than weal. It definitely retards karmic evolution.
Homo-sexuality seems to be a sugar-coated poison. Except for some psychological satisfaction & momentary physical ecstatic pleasure during glandular secretions, it brings more woe than weal. It definitely retards karmic evolution.
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Original post: spiritalk
When the spirit leaves the body behind (on death) all the organ die with the body...they are a material vibration that can not exist without the spirit energies. In this I see sex as a human body urge...nothing to do with the spirit.
Yes, many loving couples have very high energy experiences during sex. They see it as their soul mate energies and/or sexual heights. And this is a good measure of a good relationship to learn, live and grow with and through.
God bless, J
When the spirit leaves the body behind (on death) all the organ die with the body...they are a material vibration that can not exist without the spirit energies. In this I see sex as a human body urge...nothing to do with the spirit.
Yes, many loving couples have very high energy experiences during sex. They see it as their soul mate energies and/or sexual heights. And this is a good measure of a good relationship to learn, live and grow with and through.
God bless, J
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Original post: durki
Sex is a double-edged weapon. It is a boon-cum-bane. It is a boon if the child born of the union between the lovers is well taken care of & brought up thereby bestowing blessings on the couple which improve their karma & speed up their spiritual evolution. It becomes a bane if indulged in fruitless perversion for carnal gratifications.
Sex is a double-edged weapon. It is a boon-cum-bane. It is a boon if the child born of the union between the lovers is well taken care of & brought up thereby bestowing blessings on the couple which improve their karma & speed up their spiritual evolution. It becomes a bane if indulged in fruitless perversion for carnal gratifications.
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Original post: durki
One person had approached me a few months back that his semenal emission frequency is quite high. I had advised him to reduce his obesity, put in hard physical and mental works & workouts; and to concentrate on the mid-point between the eye-brows after closing eyes or after gazing at that point in a mirror.
Now he has reported that his semenal ejaculations have drastically come down.
One person had approached me a few months back that his semenal emission frequency is quite high. I had advised him to reduce his obesity, put in hard physical and mental works & workouts; and to concentrate on the mid-point between the eye-brows after closing eyes or after gazing at that point in a mirror.
Now he has reported that his semenal ejaculations have drastically come down.
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Original post: budhabee
[/QUOTE]Such old people can fulfill their desires in astral sphere if they are minor ones but in case desires are of intensely physical nature then they will be required to take another physical re-incarnation on earth.[/QUOTE]
I followed this thread while wondering to myself just how many rules, regulations, restrictions, and taboo's about sex could actually be posted on one thread. My my my that's a lot to remember Grasshopper. Then I got to this thread on old people. Thank goodness......I was afraid for awhile there you were going to leave us out. Damm....then where would we be? Now if you don't mind.......I believe I'll go take a cold shower.
Blessings
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[/QUOTE]Such old people can fulfill their desires in astral sphere if they are minor ones but in case desires are of intensely physical nature then they will be required to take another physical re-incarnation on earth.[/QUOTE]
I followed this thread while wondering to myself just how many rules, regulations, restrictions, and taboo's about sex could actually be posted on one thread. My my my that's a lot to remember Grasshopper. Then I got to this thread on old people. Thank goodness......I was afraid for awhile there you were going to leave us out. Damm....then where would we be? Now if you don't mind.......I believe I'll go take a cold shower.
Blessings
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Original post: endor957
Imagine living in a world with a microchip implanted in you since birth. All former credentials of ID goes out the window. I'm talking SS#'s, birth certificates, HMO cards, etc., and this microchip observes and regulate your behaviour as in you can have sex but you can't fuck, you can get aroused but no jerking off, you can have hopes and aspirations but based on social and racial structures, you are ordered to go to your destined reservation life module.
This is what it seems like the root of this threat is going. I am not saying that it is but after reading the initial post, I couldn't help to imagine digging out a techno slut and a bunch of guys come crashing through the window in black spaceballs uniforms zapping the shit out of me taking me to room 110 to be "purged".
Imagine living in a world with a microchip implanted in you since birth. All former credentials of ID goes out the window. I'm talking SS#'s, birth certificates, HMO cards, etc., and this microchip observes and regulate your behaviour as in you can have sex but you can't fuck, you can get aroused but no jerking off, you can have hopes and aspirations but based on social and racial structures, you are ordered to go to your destined reservation life module.
This is what it seems like the root of this threat is going. I am not saying that it is but after reading the initial post, I couldn't help to imagine digging out a techno slut and a bunch of guys come crashing through the window in black spaceballs uniforms zapping the shit out of me taking me to room 110 to be "purged".
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Original post: extinctionspasm
What happens in room 110?
What happens in room 110?
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Original post: Naomi Chan
Here's an edited portion of my journal if anyone wants to take a look - this happened about 2 months ago.
'I turned it on and it happened to be on the Disney channelâ?¦from what I know, an impossible feat because supposedly you have to hit â??selectâ?Â
Here's an edited portion of my journal if anyone wants to take a look - this happened about 2 months ago.
'I turned it on and it happened to be on the Disney channelâ?¦from what I know, an impossible feat because supposedly you have to hit â??selectâ?Â
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Original post: Naomi Chan
[QUOTE=extinctionspasm;269397]What happens in room 110?[/QUOTE]
I just relayed that, space cadet.
[QUOTE=extinctionspasm;269397]What happens in room 110?[/QUOTE]
I just relayed that, space cadet.
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Original post: Buggy166
[QUOTE=Naomi Chan;269406]Here's an edited portion of my journal if anyone wants to take a look - this happened about 2 months ago.
'I turned it on and it happened to be on the Disney channelâ?¦from what I know, an impossible feat because supposedly you have to hit â??selectâ?Â
[QUOTE=Naomi Chan;269406]Here's an edited portion of my journal if anyone wants to take a look - this happened about 2 months ago.
'I turned it on and it happened to be on the Disney channelâ?¦from what I know, an impossible feat because supposedly you have to hit â??selectâ?Â