am i cursed & how can I get rid of it

numb · Post by **numb** » Sat Dec 26, 2009 2:51 pm

Hi

I have had the worst 5 months of my life. I thought my husband and I were life long partners and everybody saw how happy we were. We have been together for 20 yrs.
My husband got a job DJ ing on a radio station and he became very friendly with a listner and chatted all the time to her on Facebook, he never mentioned he was married and she comes across as having some mental issues. She is heavily into all mystical things and has all these on her facebook. When I found out I asked him to stop and he did stop chatting to her but gave her no reason why until some time later he contacted her and explained what had happened. It made me really ill and I wanted to leave him and shouted at him every couple of days. after a couple of weeks he deleted his facebook account and quit his dj job. He has never done anything wrong before and asked me to give him a chance which I now think I owe him.

Whilst all this was happening our 4 and half dog died of a mysterious illness and we had a post mortum done and although she had liver failure no-one can explain it.

Also our daughter is getting into constant trouble at school detention and being put on report and she used to be known as the little mouse in the corner.

and I have been ill for a couple of months and I have now got to be tested for cancer I am 44 yrs old.

I personally think that because my husband wouldn't leave me the next best thing is to kill me off so he will turn to her for comfort.

Has anyone got some serious suggestions and how I can remove a curse as it may be too late for me but I do not want my daughter harmed by it.

Many thanks

Tracey x

Nahemah · Post by **Nahemah** » Tue Jan 05, 2010 5:13 pm

Heya,sorry for not replying till now,but I had some problems with this folder,my pc wapped out on me,cookie issues apparently,lol.

It seems to me.this is mostly some spousal naivety on your husband's part,hurtful yes,stupid of him yes, but not intentionally malicious and your daughter sounds very much like two of mine,who both hit the rebellious teen 'complete character reversal' phase just when I was going through some health troubles of my own.I'm also sorry you lost your dog like that,I've had loved family pets die on me for no apparent reason also,it turned out there was underlying health issues,just that they were hard to find.

I don't really think you've been cursed per se,any more than other folk who've found it dosen't just rain but it pours,at certain points in life.

That being said,however,cleansing and protecting your home and family space and performing workings for luck and prosperity certainly wouldn't hurt any.It may indeed be that this person has just enough bad feeling towards you to affect you,to help make things worse than they need be.

I'll have a think and a look around my stuff and post for you later,on specifics.Positive thoughts and a strong mental 'can do,will do 'attitude go a long way towards curse/hex removal too.

I've just came through a rough time myself.If it's helpful at all,to know,You will get past this,I'm sure of it.

numb · Post by **numb** » Wed Jan 06, 2010 6:08 pm

Hey thanks so much for replying, I really do appreciate it. After New Years eve I decided I was being a fool and stopped feeling negative and decided to move on with my life, hey hubby is so sorry and knows he really hurt me and has done every thing possible to make amends plus he was told off by some people he spoke to. Like you I think my daughter just hit the teens and is testing the ground at school. I also decided to put my name down for a new pup so that should liven things up abit in a couple of months time.

My hubby bought me a special pyramid with crystals in it for cleansing and also some special candles which I can do some working's with.

But any way now I feel happier everything seems so much better if that makes sense.

Thanks again

Happy New Year to you

Nahemah · Post by **Nahemah** » Wed Jan 06, 2010 6:37 pm

I'm glad things have turned around for you.I'll keep you and the family in my thoughts,light a wee candle or two anyway.

I couldn't reply but I wanted to,damn PC technical stuff!

Good on hubby for his thoughtful gift,that will strengthen the energies between you.

"Positive thoughts and a strong mental 'can do,will do 'attitude go a long way towards curse/hex removal too."

I 'm also glad you realised this in what I said,for yourself,it really does help a lot,even if you've been cursed to yin yang and back,by focusing on the positive,realising you do have power within you and not reacting to fear and doubt,you take back ground and deflect nastiness even before reacting magickally.

Please update on how things are working out for you from time to time,i9f you don't mind.Oh and teenagers are hard work,lol.I've got through three teen nightmares so far and am currently on my fourth teen experience,lol again.

Post by **Venefica** » Sun Jan 24, 2010 7:26 pm

I might not understand all this social rules stuff, but if your husband had a female friend on facebook, is that something to go ballistic over? I mean one thing is if he told her he loved her and had a relationship with her, but just having a friend of the opposite sex, what is the big deal about that?

I hope you will get well soon. I to do not think you have been cursed, but a bit of cleansing and rebalancing of Energies as well as blessings on the home will never hurt. I wish you the very best.

Uriel666 · Post by **Uriel666** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 8:01 pm

I suggest working a "mirror spell." If it is coming from someone then it will be reflected back to them, and then you know. If not, then no harm done. As far as your dog is concerned, it is widely known among dog lovers that when a marriage hits the rocky roads, then Ole' Rover usually go's down for the count. (It kinda makes you think about the old concept of a familiar a little more clearly, doesn't it!) Been there, done that, and I send you the most powerful well-wishes that I can send!!

Uriel666 · Post by **Uriel666** » Sun Apr 04, 2010 1:14 pm

I feel the need to repost in order to go into detail about the "mirror spell." You seem to be thinking that your husband may be sending ill-wishes your way, but have you considered the possibility that the "other woman" could be responsible? Before you get alarmed, understand that she cannot affect you unless you allow it. Go through the typical shielding(sprinkling salt around the house,mentally tracing a pentagram on every entrance into the house(windows included!) Erect a cone of power around your home and then work the mirror spell. A lot of people seem to think that a mirror spell is ill-wishing someone, but if that is true , then having ADT is ill-wishing the friendly neighborhood burglar/rapist!

Post by **Venefica** » Thu Apr 15, 2010 7:54 am

Actually many animals seam to have the ability to pick up on their owner's emotions and be adversely affected if there is trouble in the home. I had a hamster once, Bolla, and she would get physically sick if there was arguments and bad energy in the house. And one of my dogs, Mario he would lay on top of us if we where sick and then suck the illness out and get sick himself. It was no stopping him from doing this. And we later found out that particular race had been used for that purpose historically. Animals is more sensitive than we often think.