weird effect happening

[link5019]

okay so ive been going at trying to change my gender(with some success actually) and ive been wondering what to do. part of this is that what im doing changes your personality a bit. i have my personality clashing with the other personality. so what should i do?

[Stukov]

You have a choice, either split, find way a to compromise, or reject one bit and accept another.

Btw, sex and for the most part gender is based on your biology, unless you have sex change and hormone replacement therapy you still going to be your born sex.

[link5019]

You have a choice, either split, find way a to compromise, or reject one bit and accept another.

Btw, sex and for the most part gender is based on your biology, unless you have sex change and hormone replacement therapy you still going to be your born sex.

heh thats the nice part ill be a fully functional female meaning ovaries, womb, everything. but anywho, how would i reject one bit and accept the other?

[Stukov]

Reject/accept you basically have to convince other part of your self is right.

Far as using this means to develop woman parts...I don't see it happening until I bring the veil down. Do whatever you want though.

[link5019]

Reject/accept you basically have to convince other part of your self is right.

Far as using this means to develop woman parts...I don't see it happening until I bring the veil down. Do whatever you want though.

ok well, i think i can managed even still good luck with the veil i hear that it will be down by the 28th of october

[Stukov]

That is somewhat a joke.

[Belial]

There are many things I know of but honestly Link you manage to escape my comprehension.I do not mean to sound offensive I simply do not know what to think of you.You're like solving a Rubik's Cube in a blender.

[link5019]

That is somewhat a joke.

no it isnt a joke im serious here

[link5019]

There are many things I know of but honestly Link you manage to escape my comprehension.I do not mean to sound offensive I simply do not know what to think of you.You're like solving a Rubik's Cube in a blender.

yeah i tend to do that to people but in the end it all makes sense

[Belial]

I question whether it will be enough sense to pay the toll.

[link5019]

I question whether it will be enough sense to pay the toll.

what toll?

[Stukov]

The event of bringing down the veil isn't a joke (though I might have found a way to do without destruction - well with less crashing noises), it happening on the 28th of October, 2011 is partially a joke.

[link5019]

The event of bringing down the veil isn't a joke (though I might have found a way to do without destruction - well with less crashing noises), it happening on the 28th of October, 2011 is partially a joke.

but im not joking im serious here

[Stukov]

Nevermind.

[link5019]

Nevermind.

no seriously im being serious. yeah it may be a joke to you but im telling you what ive heard

[Stukov]

You aren't understanding the concept of humor and I'm not going to spell it out for you. It ruins the running joke for the rest of us.

[link5019]

You aren't understanding the concept of humor and I'm not going to spell it out for you. It ruins the running joke for the rest of us.

thats supposed to be a joke i dont see it and if its a running joke for the rest of you whos the rest of you

[Stukov]

We are rather off topic, I think OP mentions personality clashes or sex change. Should get back on topic, or otherwise take it to the random discussions sticky.

[link5019]

We are rather off topic, I think OP mentions personality clashes or sex change. Should get back on topic, or otherwise take it to the random discussions sticky.

ok. so i can either split it choosing the one i like or compromise and choose both?

[Stukov]

Split...as in you would become two separate entities - it has happened when different personalities of a whole clashed so much they were incompatible. Comprimise, find some sort of middle ground in which both parts of self can agree to. Or accept/reject which means one part of your self has to convince the other part they are right and should let go. Let it be known, if you are battling your "higher self", they are usually wiser, have a wider vision, and won't let go of things that it is probably better informed about - just because you are whining about it down on the ground. However, it CAN be done (during my integration I did this both ways.)

[catboydale]

Just keep them both.

I mean, as long as these "personalities" aren't dangerous, and don't cause any losses in memory, or any other crazy effects that harm your normal way of life (such as symptoms of multiple personality disorder); I don't see why you would want to get rid of one. I'm sure one is feminine and one is masculine, but you'll never know when that masculine side will come in handy. I have a cross dressing (I guess transgender/Hermaphrodite) friend at work, he found out later in his life that he had inactive ovaries (which in turn explained his feminine side). He came to the realization, that even though he yearned to be woman, when he was a woman, he knew he couldn't give up being a man. Not just because he was a father, and he needed to be a strong masculine figure, but because he just enjoyed being a man sometimes.

This is just my opinion based of personal observation.

I guess I could understand wanting one side of you to dominate over the other, in which case, as long as you try hard to be yourself, your true personality will take over. In which, I recommend against being someone you're not. Just be yourself.

[Stukov]

Just keep them both.

I mean, as long as these "personalities" aren't dangerous, and don't cause any losses in memory, or any other crazy effects that harm your normal way of life (such as symptoms of multiple personality disorder); I don't see why you would want to get rid of one. I'm sure one is feminine and one is masculine, but you'll never know when that masculine side will come in handy. I have a cross dressing (I guess transgender/Hermaphrodite) friend at work, he found out later in his life that he had inactive ovaries (which in turn explained his feminine side). He came to the realization, that even though he yearned to be woman, when he was a woman, he knew he couldn't give up being a man. Not just because he was a father, and he needed to be a strong masculine figure, but because he just enjoyed being a man sometimes.

This is just my opinion based of personal observation.

I guess I could understand wanting one side of you to dominate over the other, in which case, as long as you try hard to be yourself, your true personality will take over. In which, I recommend against being someone you're not. Just be yourself.

He isn't getting read of a personality, he is merging different parts of self into a single one. He has as a personality trait that, as a person, he wants to get rid of.

[link5019]

Just keep them both.

I mean, as long as these "personalities" aren't dangerous, and don't cause any losses in memory, or any other crazy effects that harm your normal way of life (such as symptoms of multiple personality disorder); I don't see why you would want to get rid of one. I'm sure one is feminine and one is masculine, but you'll never know when that masculine side will come in handy. I have a cross dressing (I guess transgender/Hermaphrodite) friend at work, he found out later in his life that he had inactive ovaries (which in turn explained his feminine side). He came to the realization, that even though he yearned to be woman, when he was a woman, he knew he couldn't give up being a man. Not just because he was a father, and he needed to be a strong masculine figure, but because he just enjoyed being a man sometimes.

This is just my opinion based of personal observation.

I guess I could understand wanting one side of you to dominate over the other, in which case, as long as you try hard to be yourself, your true personality will take over. In which, I recommend against being someone you're not. Just be yourself.

He isn't getting read of a personality, he is merging different parts of self into a single one. He has as a personality trait that, as a person, he wants to get rid of.

i guess so. but im merging the personality keeping all the female parts and keeping a few of the man traits. so its part of the process to become 100% female.

[Stukov]

There are no male or female personality traits. Just which sex you identify with for love/sex and that of identity. It sounds like you are trying to get rid of traits because you think them male,that won't work. You get rid of traits like...speaks without thinking...or direct or blunt...

[link5019]

There are no male or female personality traits. Just which sex you identify with for love/sex and that of identity. It sounds like you are trying to get rid of traits because you think them male,that won't work. You get rid of traits like...speaks without thinking...or direct or blunt...

meh, whatever. but you are right im using a combo of what i think are male and female traits