Spell to Remove Unseen Wall/Obstacle Between 2 Lovers

[RTBoss]

Could anyone point me to a spell that would be used during a waning moon to banish or remove a wall - almost like an energetic "elephant in the room" - that may be responsible for keeping two people with a strong love interest in one another from being together? It feels like a suffocating barrier, and I feel its removal is necessary for us to be together.

[BlueMoon]

There are many things to be considered before attempting to work a spell in this kind of situation. Knowing a problem inside and out can go a long way in chosing (or adapting, or making) the right spell(s) to solve it efficiently.

If this were me, here are a few questions I would ask myself in order to help me come up with the right magical action to take (or not take). If you haven't already, I suggest you take the time to reflect on these as they could help you find the best solution for everybody involved.

* Is what's keeping the two lovers appart really a magical barrier? Could it be something more "mundane" like insecurities stemming from past relationships, the need to work on oneself before begining a new relationship, some sort of subconscious blockage, or something similar? If so, a simple self-confidence boost could do the trick.
* If it really is an energetic or magical barrier, where does it come from?
* Does it come from a "physical" third party (a jealous ex-lover, an over-protective parent, or a mysterious ill-meaning stranger for example)? If so, a counter-spell might be the best choice here.
* Does it come from a "non-physical" third party (a spirit guide, guardian angel/demon, or anything else either person involved believes in)? If so, the reason behind it could be important to find out.
* Could it come, consciously or not, from either lover (or both)? If so, again the reason behind it could be the key to breaking the spell.
* Could it be something else entirely? It could be that the time simply isn't right, that the relationship could be detrimental to one (or both) lover, that there is a different soul link carried on from a past life, and so on.

In short, explore the possibilities, find where the barrier comes from and why, and you will have a much beter idea of where to begin to remove it. Alternately, you could find excellent reasons to leave it in place.

Either way, in the end the choice is yours. I just believe it's better to make an educated decision rather than cast a pre-made spell in the dark.

[RTBoss]

Thank you very much for your insightful and detailed post. I will meditate upon it to see what's really going on.

Let's say, arbitrarily, that the blocking influence was physical in nature - such as an ill-meaning stranger. You mentioned using a counter-spell. Would you be able to point me in the direction of an example?

Just a note in addition to my first post - some important signs to point out for me are the numbers on clocks, televisions (shows/temperature stamps/you-name-it), are constantly showing me "my numbers," whenever a thought involving the other person enters my awareness. I've always considered these numbers signs that I'm "on the right track," - so to me, the time is right, and it's an issue I need to deal with now. I believe the numbers are symbolic communication from my spirit guides, and the timing is always meaningful, if not uncanny.

[BlueMoon]

I can't really point you to a specific counter spell, because I don't know the situation and the people and energies involved well enough. Maybe somebody else on this forum could, though.

I don't use "recipes" for magic (or cooking even); I just do it instinctively based on what's available and on the feel of the moment. It works very well for me, but I'm well aware that it might not be the case for everybody. The best I can do is give you a few pointers.

Generally speaking, counter spells can be pretty much anything. You can use opposing energies to dissipate and/or overpower the energies of the original spell once you've gotten a feel of it. I find this very effective, but it can backfire if it's not done right or if the original spell is stronger than expected. Another way to go about it is to carefully unravel the energies put in place by the original spell. This can be a lot of work, but it tends to give much better results in my experience. My favourite spells to counter are the ones that need to be actively maintained because all I need to do is distract the other magician or convince them that their energies are better spent elsewhere. I'd never miss a chance to wreak a little havoc in the life of someone who's getting in the way [crazy]

Again, that's only what works well for me. I'm sure there's at least as many methods to counter spells as there are magicians out there. The important part is that you find something you are comfortable working with.

It's interesting what you say about numbers. It could very well be your spirit guides trying to give you a sign. I know mine used to do that sort of thing with me, too. It might be worth looking into. Maybe THEY know where the barrier came from and how to take it down.

[RTBoss]

Thanks again, and yes - I gained some insight during mediation today regarding my guides and the information they're trying to pass to me.

By the way, I like your signature. I love Tool.

[grimmos]

mabby one day soon ill post my pushing the envelope under the door poem online for all too see

blue moon whats your theory on your signature

[BlueMoon]

Thanks again, and yes - I gained some insight during mediation today regarding my guides and the information they're trying to pass to me.

You're welcome. I'm glad I was able to be of some help. Please keep us updated; I'm sure I'm not the only one here who would like to know how this situation unfolds for you.

By the way, I like your signature. I love Tool.

Thanks Believe it or not, Tool is a good part of what got me, err, RE-interested in spirituality in my teens.

mabby one day soon ill post my pushing the envelope under the door poem online for all too see

Please do. Your poems are interesting to read.

blue moon whats your theory on your signature

That's a good question. I'd say that to me it's about pushing the boundaries of what is established as being real to see how far one can go; redefining the concept of "real" and of self as far as it will go, and once settled into a new reality and self, pushing it again, and again. Always going further in learning more and constantly redefining my own existence in the process.

[Desecrated]

This is obviously a negative thing, and most people will tell you to think about it and get really deep with it. Sooner or later you are going to be feeling negative about the whole situation, you and your partner might end up arguing about what to do about the situation, so now you are having a fight over the fact that you are fighting.

So, lets stop. Lets bring some positive energy into play.

This is how I perform love spells on my wife:
Every now and again I'll get some "love magic" book. So I show it to her and jokingly tell her that I'm going to perform a love spell on her.

That it is.

Now we can talk about the psychology behind this and how magic sometimes work as a placebo effect and a self fulfilling prophecy.
OR, we can just say that women likes attention. Hell, as far as I know, men like attention to. It should work no matter what partner you have.

So, be positive, joke a little, bring some fun and play into the relationship. let your partner fell loved and desired. Build/concentrate on the strong parts and the bad parts might very well just crumble and fall away.



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BTW, I've never actually performed a spell on my wife. I just tell her that so she knows that I'm thinking about her even when she isn't home.
We've been married over 13 years.