Thank you guys so much

! You guys are very helpful :3!
I agree,thanks for saying so.Members here are inclined to be helpful and do they possess a wide range of knowledge and experience.
Ok,that ends the slushy moment for now,lol.
You've framed your questions well,that helps members with answering too. [grin]
Bindings can vary in technique and format,across the paradigms.
Below is an example of something I sometimes use.I t has the physicality of a sympathetic rite but I also use my will and mind,the magick falls somewhere in between these processes.I hope I expalined this reasonably.It's not comprehensive but feel free to ask me more about it,if you wish.....the most powerful magicks ,in my opinion,mix up the physical,mental and spritual together,but IMMVand that''s ok too.
This one is from my Northern 'Home ground' it's an easy enough one to pull off,but its not for major or important situations.
I wil engage in a sympathetic ritual.I will bind or tie a poppet or other fetish object which represents the person to be bound,I use herbs and incenses in my working,passing the poppet through various smokes as I incant.This poppet has personal 'findings' stolen [the thievery bit is important for me] from the object of my affection [the bindee] contained wthin it/wrapped around it or otherwise impregnated through it.
I use Rue and Stinging nettles for this kind of thing,mostly.I dry my own herbs.The cords used for the actual tying up of the poppet should be knotted,to tie your intent in to the charm. [I like nine knots,nine days to tighten lol,if kinda quick results are needed,you can wet the poppet thoroughly after charming it,to quicken the process more,keep rewetting after allowing some drying first to tighten.
The poppet should be bound three times over anyway,in the nine days,so I use three cords for this working,three knots on each.
I use Black and red cords,but colours can vary a lot,depending on your own preferred associations and correspondances etc.
I am casting this with a focused intent in my mind,this is the mental part,verbal and visual intonation and reinforcement,I can 'see' this person behaving calmly and well in the end and I envisage their frustration at their own inability to successfully cause mischief,I 'see' things backfiring on them,as they go along and I also allow them the space to come to a realisation that mibbe they should stop being so dickish and settle down.I work in a light trance so I can zero in' on the person's energies,mentally and magicaklly speaking.
The finished article is stored in my 'box of tricks': a large wooden box I have,lined with red velvet.I place certain symbols on a cloth which it gets wrapped in, I use Rune chrams in my working.You may use whichever symbolism is appropriate for you.The poppet is 'contained' in this box,till I reinforce the cords and reposes there the rest of the time until the lesson is learned.
I reinforce the mental images often too.
This is for those I don't dislike much,but who would benefit from a bit of 'tobering up.'
I have other methods and means I utilise for bigger matters,but that is more detailed and for another discussion later,perhaps.
There is more to this subject,a lot more we can discuss.